Abuelita hates my glasses.

Abuelita and I:"Clarisita, do you really need to wear those glasses? I mean really?"-- "Yes, Abuelita, I have an astigmatism and that gives me migraines.... why?" -- "Well, I don't want to be rude and don't take me wrong, but you look... nerdy." -- "well... I am." -- "True, but that is not what you want to project to the WHOLE world. Look at me, I am a nerd! No, no Clarisita. You're pretty, emphasize it."